Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Malawian weddings



above, Mr. & Mrs. Chunga x2, Bayana & Shingi on left, Nase & Chimwemwe on right
above, bridal salon at a local market
Malawians are generous with cash, or kwacha, throwing it out
as they dance as you can see with the little boy below.
Junior bridesmaids dancing on the stage.
Congrautlations Nase & Chimwemwe Chunga!
I was thrilled to find wedding photos on Facebook today! The top 2 photos are from the wedding of my adopted Malawian son's twin brother in Kasungu, Malawi, on 10/4/09. After 6 years, I finally met Nase on my last visit to Malawi. He is a charming guy with a quick wit and engaging personality. I am happy that he has found his life partner, and what a beautiful young woman she is!
I was fortunate to attend 2 wedding receptions while last in Malawi, one in Blantyre and one in Lilongwe. (The actual wedding ceremony usually takes place early in the morning, and is attended by only family and closest friends.) Both my host families were chosen as "lead couple". They lead the procession down an aisle at the reception. And in typical Malawian style, they do not walk, but dance down the aisle. Their entry signals "let the party begin". Generosity is the highlight of wedding receptions, giving the couples mostly cash instead of gifts. A Master of Ceremonies coordinates the event and an official supervises the collection and counting of the money. This tradition is an important part of setting up a new family household.